All, I have a question for everyone because since I'm in this situation, I cannot think clearly. Let me paint a picture here.
So, my W now does not really go out so much anymore. This is because she doesn't feel the need to as much, but it's also because my sister (whom was her party buddy) is pregnant and taking it easy. So, to replace this, she likes to pay a weekly visit to her divorcee friend. So, this friend has a "kind of" boyfriend, but they are not really committed to one another. Every Wednesday, this "kind of" boyfriend comes over to the divorcee's house and the three of them hang out, talk, drink, etc. My W usually doesn't come home until late (~1:00ish) from these events.
I have concerns because I perceive my W spending "quality" time with another man who's not really spoken for, but she assures me there's absolutely no interest. I brought up how I was uncomfortable with this the other day and she was absolutely livid with me because I don't trust her (give me a break). Her point is that she'd never put herself through that kind of stress again, has told me this numerous times, and that the visits are harmless. My point is that her visits at the bar where she met OM were harmless at first too. She understands how I feel, but will not "give in to my insecurities" (her words).
Am I being overly sensitive you guys? On the one hand I think I should just act as if and not worry about it. Her behavior does suggest that she's committed to me. On the other hand, I can't help but having concerns that this is planting the seed for a future cheating.
Thanks all.
Quoting Robin:As for the sex thing, all I can say is maybe it's the season - my desire has disappeared completely...of course in my case, that's probably a good thing, since I have no partner.
