W and I are getting closer and closer in bed, last night she initiated some very long kisses. We talked a little, laughed a lot, she likes the changes I've made on me, but she also pointed out a few minor things which in the past have put her off ML. We laughed about them too, I said "you're my best friend you're suppose to tell me straight". W said she'd been telling me for a long time but she was sure I wasn't listening so gave up. Maybe she was right and I just took her affection for granted and drop my personal standards and let a few things go . Anyway we agreed to take our time and move slowly towards ML although she did allow me some comfort and relief before sleep.
So we had some constructive talk, not full R talk or crazy talk, but I sure there's still plenty more of them to come.
