so my W stopped bty today and anounced she wanted to pick some stuff up. then she took 4the next 15 min picking throught the house for stuff like cooking oil and canned goods. this should not have bothered me but it did. its like if you move out, even though i want you to come back, this isn't a food pantry you can rummage through and then leave. well then she looked through every frifggin room of the house. she commented the plants looked nice and the dishes were alll done, but she THEN didnt srtop till she found something wrong. stated she thought ther floor around the toilet could use a good scrubing...YOU DONT LIVE HERE WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS. man that sucked the only good thing is she does want to spend three days togerther. but this will be boobietraped as she wants to get drunk. i am worried things might get daid that wouldn't if we were sober. both good and bad things. but when i brought this up she totaly blew me off. she then brought up mabey instead of going out of town we should go to Vegas. come on people dont go to Vega to work on a marrage.
