Quoting KAW:Jethro, one concern I have is every so often you bring up that you are upset due to A. Do you also bring up the times when you enjoy just being with her?
Umm...not specifically. I do tell her that I appreciate all of the things she does right though. She's really been trying and it's been pretty good.
So, about a month ago, I was getting very frustrated because she wasn't doing things "with conviction." Well, I think I was too focused on watching to see what she does rather than kick back, do my own thing, and let her do these things herself. I have found that ever since I've been able to let go a bit, and not pressure myself into DBing with perfection, I have also released some pressure on my W. I am more relaxed as a result, as is she. Interesting how that can work the other way too...
In any case, things just continue to roll along. I do have a question for some of you guys. When my W and I first began to "Piece," (and even during her A) her libido was...how should I say this...active. A few months later, it is not that active, but mine hasn't changed. As difficult as it is to say, I think that during her A she was turned on by her "activities," then when we first started "Piecing," it was like a flood of emotions or energy or something, and she was really active. So, now that she's much more present, she's less "interested." What's everyone else's experiences here? This can be frustrating sometimes.
Quoting KAW:Finally, got all five birch stumps out last weekend, how'd you doin' with your trees?
Well, not too good. I haven't done anything with my trees, but I did some big-time hedge trimming on Saturday. I'm just delaying the inevitable...
As difficult as it is to say, I think that during her A she was turned on by her "activities," then when we first started "Piecing," it was like a flood of emotions or energy or something, and she was really active. So, now that she's much more present, she's less "interested." What's everyone else's experiences here? This can be frustrating sometimes. 
