Quoting jethro: We went out last Friday so she could get her Karaoke fix, and out of nowhere she held my hand, leaned over with tears in her eyes, and told me she was sorry. It was a poignent moment...and it did make me feel pretty good.
Wow. The spontaneous apology so many of us hope for! Good for you AND your w. that she was able to give it.
Quote: The weekend was pretty tough. Seemed like every time I turned around there was a reminder of her A. If it wasn't a song on the radio, it was something on TV, or a story someone told us about someone else, or even a dream that I had. It kind of put me in a funk. As a result, I told my W yesterday that I was upset, and she was pretty cool about it...like she's been lately. When I mention how I'm feeling, she says that she thinks it will take time but it will get better. Why does this annoy me? I mean, it doesn't annoy me when you guys tell me that, but it bugs me when she does.
Because it seems slightly dismissive of your feelings? (Tho' that's probably not her intent...). Maybe it's better to say her response isn't validating of your feelings?
Quote: Other than that, nothing really new to report. Just living life the way it should be lived, I guess...which is mundanely-fantastic if you ask me.
Wow...such a quick post and full of lots of stuff! Gald to hear that life is moving along.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
