I really hope that this is not a permanent change for our spouses, i.e. that they are through with motherhood. To me, they act more like aunts or other relatives that have a less emotional interest than a mom.

Of course, I think that eventually they will be pulled back emotionally but I hope it is not long after the kids move on because of a lack of emotional investment on the part of our wives.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God