It's offical, this weekend I baked 300 cookies!! I can't say the kitchen is clean...but man did I bake. And I had a lot of fun doing it. It was good to have some quiet time to myself and just find my groove. I think I may be starting to feel human again!
So now I get to spend my evenings over the next 2 weeks decorating and that is the fun part.
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As for the love letter over a year ago....this is exactly why we need to keep reminding ourselves that even though things look bleek, they can change in a heartbeat. I try to remember this when I get sad about H feelings for OW and his lack of feelings for me. He can easily change his feelings for OW and start loving YOU again. Just remind yourself to plan for surprises.
I hadn't thought of it this way. Thank you so much for changing my perspective on this! Look at you go! Now go back and reread what you wrote to me and pretend you're saying it to yourself. I do it all the time...it amazes how much I need to hear these things, even from myself!
WTG...if we get any more snow...I'm moving. I've got 7' snow banks, it's nuts. I can't believe I remember this, but I think it's 24" pythons. 36" would be a notso small guys waist! And I agree, the shovelling is good for the butt and the arms! This week is nuts for me, but I'll e-mail you and maybe we can get together next week.
Well...Cookie Chick is tired. I'm hanging up my apron and calling it a night! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out