I want a nekkid weekend (okay - a night would be good right now), a Blow Out, Pop rocks on the side and waiting...can I ask for those things for my 50 birthday?

Husband is still being super sweet - almost sickening. We are so polite to each other it makes me want to gag. But things are going really slow. We have eaten together twice this week. I still don't know what his plans are and I'm not asking BUT I'd like the birthday nekkid weekend, night or just an hour.