BobbiJo, Think about this and I'm sure our friends will tell what they think of it. First does anyone think you should thank H for the e-mail and leveling w/ you? It might be important to acknowledge his finally being somewhat honest w/ you, but let him know that trust needs to be rebuilt. Tell him that you understand that he needs time and space, and maybe that is what is best for both you. You realize that he is confused now and you are as well. Has he found an IC yet? I really believe H has a lot of fixing to do before much can be done w/ your M.
