Wow, I don't think I have ever been number one in anything! Cool.
I am happy to hear you are back on track (the ILY must have felt great!). Keep working! I think that after the dust settles and our Ses are working with us, we, the betrayed, sort of stop our DBing attempts in order to let them shoulder some of the load. Kinda like, "Damn it. You hurt me. It's your turn to show remorse and make me believe you want to stay. After all, I've done this...this...and this to save the M. Now you have to do something for me." Unfortunately, that isn't reasonable.
We have to be the one to still shoulder the load as our Ss work through the sh!t the led to the gap in the M, which will, undoubtedly, lead us to rethink our small but significant role in the drama that led to the A. (Incidently, RUSH has some great lyrics from a song on Permanent Waves: Just between us, I think it's time for us to recognize That the gap between us, Leaves room, For you and I to grow.").
Besides, my MC told SAM and I that everyone past thirty brings a lot of baggage to a new relationship! So, with a renewed sense of purpose let's get back to work and save our Ms!!
