Can you think of a way that will make him realise you mean business? He NEEDS to realise that, to have a motive to really try this time. If he has gotten away easily in the past he probably believes somewhere in the back of his mind, that this time is no different. I know I would. It's human behaviour.
K
Bbj, this is what I feel right in YOUR sitch... You have been giving him so many chances he thinks he can do this eternally. And could it be that this time it was probably the OW that was demanding that triggered this whole thing. Have you thought of that?
K
PS Sorry if it sounds harsh, in general I agree with your long post. I think you have it right...
