Oh.. you were so close. You are almost there. Well at least to the point where you may understand it.
Yes dead on about the MLC. If he does something and you think it is a MLC effect. Lock it away. Just keep going like it never happened. Later you can come here and tell us all about it. Here is the place you try to work it all out. Cause someone is going to look at it different.
Yes to a point on you telling him to leave. You don't really have to accept it. He just simply did not react the way you wanted him to. Imagine that.
I don't want you to kill him with your physical side. Honestly the easiest way I can explain it is I want you to entice him with it. I gotta think that works.
What I was saying about the Thurs. was he lingered. That was a good sign. He was wanting to be there for some reason or another. I can't tell you why but he did.
Listen to this.. Very closely... People will show you the way. I don't care who they are people will show themselves. They will show you what they want you to do.
Please don't misunderstand I am telling you to jump on him the next time you see him. Maybe that would work maybe it would not. You have to find what works. I can give you the crazy point of view that you never saw coming.
Now if you give me specific references about a date/interaction I can likely give you some pointers as to what to do if that happens again.
I have been really sick the past 2 days and have not had alot of energy to put into this stuff but bear with me I am sure I will "Find Myself" again.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.