had another interesting Weekend . W comes over Sat afternoon and hangs out for takeaway dinner which is usual , its our family time when we are all together , we have done this right through our Separation. Then she stays until 10.30pm which is unusual, Also tells me she and D are going to a horse show sunday ( I took D last year ) and invited me along. I said I would think on it.
W arives Sun morning and again asks if I will come ( first time shes invited me anywhere for a long time ) So I said yes and we had a good time . W hung out at home for balance of the afternoon stayed for dinner and left in the early evening.
I am not sure what to make of this. There are some scenarios.
1. She is short on cash so she got me along as she knew i would pay and a couple of free meals never hurts ...amusing but not too likely.
2. She is missing her family time , is aware that I still have feelings ( last weekend demonstrated that ) , is aware that she still has feelings . so feeling a bit more comfortable around me. But like me unsure so just testing the water a little.
" theres something happening here but I dont know what it is "
To say i am confused is an understatement so I am adopting the attitude of being mildly receptive but very cautious. This could be early piecing or it could just be that comfort thing , only time and observation will tell.
I know its important now for me not to loose my cool and become impatient. We has a long way to go before we come close to getting back together, and I do not even know if that will be the right thing.
