Hello Mr. MLC part deux!!

[mymonkeybug]

Yeah the Star Wars one had me rolling too. I really enjoy his perspective even though I am such an air head, no I am not blonde but H always said some of my brain matter pushed out after each kid so who knows.

What I read from FG is that I should say to hell with MLC as H's problem and that I need to accept that me telling him to go and find himself was the reason he left for good as it showed I didn't care and didn't want to help him fix whatever was wrong. I also get from what he says that I should make more of an effort to stop analyzing H's small baby steps and go in for the kill by flirting or inviting him out with the kids and I for a neutral event like lunch somewhere or something along those lines. I can't quite get it when he suggests things though like when I posted on Thursday night that H wasn't in a rush to take the kids and go downstairs from our bedroom where I was laying in bed under the weather. I think FG was suggesting we should have sent the kids away and I should have made a BOLD move such as a sexual advance towards H and that that in itself would have made a big difference in our situation.

OK FG if I got any of that totally wrong I know you will let me know.