Eve,

another trick that I would like to share with you is finding statements that H can not correct, twist or complain about.

Use "I statements"..

Even better, use "I feel" statements.

No one can argue with your feelings. They are yours. They do not ask for anything just sharing insight into what is going on in your head.


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.