I know now is the wrong time to discuss matters - and I'm not going to.
Do you feel it is the wrong time. If you want to talk about it and you think it would help and would actually diffuse how you feel then I think you should tell him that.
Throughout all that has happened I have always felt you wanted the truth and answers and that it was the lying and deceit that has hurt you. If that is the case you need to tell him that.
Personally I think he is very niave if he didn't think you were going to be pretty angry in the beginning. He needs to realise that by continuing to avoid you and by covering things up he makes them worse in the long run.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
