I asked H if OW knew how much he realized how much he loves me and wants to be with me and he said he thinks she does. So I think he is breaking it to her gently.

Keep talking, Patti, as your H needs to know you are there for him and maybe tell him you have fears just like he does.....

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19