just an after thought.... you mentioned the physical aspect of your relationship.... my ex was physically satisfied at home. we were intimate AT LEAST 5 times a week, usually daily and often MORE (even after over 11 years of marriage!!) and he STILL cheated on me I have seen people on the board who blame themselves for their lack of physical closeness or intimacy as the reason their spouse cheated.... I don't buy it..... It's a problem the cheater has within themselves and they will find any excuse to cheat if that is what they want to do.....
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