Jenny, I am sorry but I had to laugh at your rule of no dating while breastfeeding. You might want to rethink it...I'm sure a date would be impressed if you said "Excuse me, I need to pump now." The thought of dating has crossed my mind too, but I have decided I won't do that until D papers are signed. I don't plan on signing any so my goal right now is to date my H. I still have hope for your H. I am so happy he was put out by the fact that he had to go out into the snow. You are not being selfish by not letting him keep you S overnight. It is what is best for your S and don't let H let you think differently.
