I can understand your worry about what the breakdown in your M is going to leave on your children. This is without a doubt the hardest part of this. If it were not for my kids, I would have gotten my M over with quite a while ago.

Originally Posted By: mymonkeybug
S8 is seeing a therapist and pshyciatrist. He simply doesn't trust daddy now and sometimes tells him he hates him and daddy told him he can accept that and that his anger should be directed at him and not mommy or his sister or anyone else but daddy.

I had a talk several month ago with our cubmaster who has been divorced for quite a while. His son (who is a great kid) had some real problems with women for some time following the divorce. His lack of respect for women was so bad that the cubmaster had to find an after school daycare which was run by a man. I am just saying this as your S8 may have a similar view towards men right now.