Beginning again like a newbie

[charlie_girl]

Hi ACJ,

We are in the same position, our house has tripled in value and neither of us can buy the equity of the other out, or afford a new place at current prices. We agreed if we divorced that we would have the house appraised to determine the equity, and whoever kept the house would sign a document that would give the other one their half of the appraised equity when the remaining one either re-married, sold the house, or died. So far we have not had to exercise this, but is this something you could have your lawyer propose to your H?