I am sorry you are feeling so poorly...I do understand that feeling far too much.

It really gets me how our S can hear something and totally put their own twist on it. Like you and the 6 month thing...that totally was not your invitation for her to try out the OM for 6 months.

I do think you are onto something with moving on and if that means that you file for D, then so be it. Just because you file doesn't mean that you have to go through with it. But maybe that will be some sort of a wake up to her that you are ready to make some choices for yourself. I don't really know.

Keeping you in my prayers,

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08