Isn't living in the 'now' tough? You can't change the past or predict the future, so what better place to be.
You've got that right! Are you reading a New Earth?
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Holidays are difficult reminders of what was taken for granted.. being a family.
I am filled with guilt over how I took family for granted. I was a HUGE complainer and so was H. Everything was a hassle. But now I need them more than ever and here they are for me. This is one reason why I really believe that all of this is happening to show ME what is important in life and to appreciate what you've got. NOW. Only now. Stop wanting and just live in the moment for what it is.
J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
