Already Gone

[Rob1231]

Hi Mark,

Thanks for the reply. It helped me understand where you are coming from much better.

So, what I heard in your last post, which hasn't really been evident in your other posts lately, was a bare sliver of possibility that your W might wake up and your M might work out. Actually, I am pleased to see that glimmer of hope from you, as tiny as it may be.

I'm not going to suggest that you fan that ember into a burning flame - just the opposite. I feel the 'Already Gone' place where your head and your heart are at right now is a good one. Maintaining detachment and looking after yourself and the kids is exactly what you should be doing, and you are doing it very well.

Wishing you the best,
Rob

P.S. Loved the heavy lifting analogy. I'm sore this morning from shoveling those same 14 inches of snow.