When it comes to marriage - make love, not war. Yes, it takes work. Remember what you've learned here, and apply what works! "If something is not working, do something different", as Michele says. Also, Dr. Gary Chapman, the author of "The Five Languages of Love" says, that each spouse should recognize his or her partner's love languages. I encourage you to get this book! I've served on this board for years - it's a good read! Michele recommends it too. (Therefore this is not a spam. Also, we do not receive a commission from him.)
Please come back to visit, and say your hellos. Other DB'ers could learn from you too.