Be strong Mike. She does seem like she is very confused. Make sure she does not feel like she is embarrassed or ashamed about this situation. That could create a mental roadblock for her to make any type of turn around. Validate some of the things she is feeling. Make sure she knows you understand. Keep doing things for yourself. BE STRONG!!!
Did you talk to a lawyer? If not, you need to. We are here for you man. Keep moving forward. Things do not seem completely hopeless. She has her doubts. As stated, she seems very confused. Give her time.
Ken Me: 37 Her: 38 Son: 8 (spina bifida) Son:2 M 6/24/1994 S 1/21/2008 Original Sitch