Speaking as a dad and a leader, Cub Scouts can be great for you and your son to bond in a different way. If you have the time a Kerry pointed out. Me and my son really enjoy it tons and it is something that the W and I have agreed is good father son time. Moms are leaders too. In fact, in our den, I would say half of them are always brought by their moms.
Aside from the scouting side, you do need to focus on your kids. They are at the age where they will be looking for your reaction to this whole ordeal. Be very careful how you deal with them. Do not ask them about time with dad. Do not use them as weapons. Be he greatest person that you can be for them. And above all, be consistent and strong for them. Kids are not stupid, they know and realize things that we do not know. Be positive and strong around them, they will appreciate it.
Ken Me: 37 Her: 38 Son: 8 (spina bifida) Son:2 M 6/24/1994 S 1/21/2008 Original Sitch