Thanks lwb; Just had another long 'relationship/I don't know what to do discussion' with W.
Wants to move out and live with OM in his country but needs a divorce quickly because she cannot co-habit there because of Islamic law. But if she can't co-habit how does she know what he will be like to live with etc etc.
OM is 11 years younger so W already feels insecure.
Or wants to live near us so she can see our children and still see OM if he returns to this country but doesn't want the kids to know about OM. I.e. keep her toy boy close for a PA.
Or wants to live in same house and see OM as above.
Or try to stay in M.
Lots of MLC behaviors showing as well. In the last 2 months she has definitely decided to do all of the above at some point!!
Not sure if these are actual choices/decisions or MLC 'clinging to the edge of the mattress'/false hope behaviors. Lots of 'cake and eat it too' I think. Typical MLC?
Getting a bit dizzy with it now but still hanging in there in the hope that all is well before the children find out what has been going on.
