Thanks for the prayers. Never can have enough of them. You know that you and your family have mine. Every night.
I have hope that your W and my W start to show more focus toward the children because they didnt ask for this. I am an adult and can take care of myself. When your parents do not demonstrate the unwavering unconditional love, it hurts deeply and affects all of your Rs.
I believe that eventually they will realize what is important in life. It will take time and a lot of patience and love for them or they will shut down permanently.
Regarding the cat, I am surprised she shared that with me. It is almost as if she still considers me safe enough to discuss things like that. Her inner thoughts or feelings. Very strange. And why would she not want to drop any thought of having a cat around if she could see her D? I dont get it. People have been questioning MLC but there is something emotionally wrong with her.
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I think his wife had found out but she never realized she had a letter stating that the mortgage was sold. What happened to all of her payments, I have no idea. She said that she called the mortgage co asking for her money back. My friends screwed up. The sad thing is that they are both intelligent people.
It appears to be too late to do anything now. The 3rd party mortgage company that it was sold to has a tendency to foreclose if it can and sell it off, taking the equity that was built up in the home. They were paying the house off in 15 years so they had built up quite a bit of equity. They really hurt themselves.
Imageer, I had no idea that your W was going through the motions like my W is. I thought that she was giving them real attention.
With the limited sampling of women MLCers, it seems like women in MLC have a greater disregard for parenting that men in MLC. I can only compare with what I have read here and some other info I have.
I have trouble with mothers abandoning there role just as much as fathers. It is an honor, not a chore.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God