Listen, I am still dealing with MLC but I am no longer really focused on divorce busting. Right now I am focused on surviving the onslaught. I am in waaaaay over my head, it seems. The legal deck is stacked against dads.
Exactly right! - you should put aside all the DBing and focus on fighting for your rights.
I saw my brother go through this mess and believe me, it was stacked against the father. I can say that as his boy became older (14), the mother/son relationship deteriorated to the point where the mother hit him and my brother was able to obtain full custody. As of now, his son is serving in the air force and his ex-W is virtually a vegetable from all of the substance abuse and hatred she has held since the divorce 18 years ago.
Be patient and try to lose the anger against the messed up system as you will need to be calm and collected for the parenting evaluation.
We are all here for you and rooting that justice finally prevails.
