Punk, my W is acting much the same as yours regarding the kids. She acts like a loving mother but is really just going through the motions. As soon as she can have them out the door it's party time. However, that has been changing to an extent lately. for a long time the kids would barely hear from her when I had them but in the last month or so she has been calling them nightly. I think it is all part of this long road.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford