here comes the sun.,...It will be alright

[Michael Mc C]

I wanted to read the rest of the posts but I got to this one and had to stop reading. When she says "that was a long time ago" I know exactly what you're feeling man. You are feeling that what those memories mean to you are lost, that she doesn't care about what those moments really meant. Don't buy into it. Things change but memories do not. She know the truth husband. She feels the same way about those times as she did back then.

She doesn't want to admit to you that there is something special about your past, about you. This is my belief. I have been there, I am still there.

She isn't ready for the two of you to be back to being "the two of you". I am there now. She knows that there is nothing wrong with you, with the two of you.

As much as it hurts to hear that those special moments are things of the past you need to believe, to know, that she feels the way she did back then. My opinion is that she does not have the fortitude yet to accept that YOU and SHE are a great couple.

Husband, this is my opinion.