Went over to help my W clean up the yard so we can sell the house. It is so hard to be there and look around. All the memories seem to hit me when I have a second alone and look around. The only diff is no pictures of me up. Plus she's added pics of the OM's kids even though she has been staying at his house most of the time. I wondered why she asked me to come over and help and was hoping she was warming up to me. But we really didn't talk much. I worked and got things cleaned up. Then the dipstick OM got home across the street. She suddenly was too tired to do any more work so we put it off till tommorrow....


H 42
W 37
M17 T20 years
3 daughters 11,11,14
seperated 11/26/07
EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8
Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon