The urge to say something is gone. I will have a come back when the time arrives without mentioning the OM.
Journaling: Today I decided to take the day off from "work" to work in the back yard. It had really gotten out of control since it was hard for me to think I was going to be living here for a while. Anyway I forgot and my alarm went off at 2:45 am and I started to get up but then remembered. I tried to get back to sleep but it was hard. Today was my son's first day of softball. He had to be at the parade at 9:00 am. At 8:00 am Wife and son were still asleep in his room. I opened the door and told him to get up. I went outside to finish up some stuff and when I came back in W was in shower. I got son ready after listening to him whine about it and when we were leaving I yelled to W Good bye. She said something and I asked son what she said and he said she said "ok I’ll be here". (Sub note. Last year W went to ONE (1) game the whole season. Ya see she signs son up for things and I end up taking him.) Anyway we get to the parade and they sing the national anthem. (Still gives me shivers when I hear that) Anyway after the parade was over here comes my W. I said “I didn't think you were coming" she said I told you I will be right there. If you waited another 5 min's we could have come together". I said I'm sorry When son said you said " I'll be here not I'll be there". She said that it was ok. So my son's first game was going to be at 3:00 today. But..... When we got home I heard wife talking to son saying.” Son when you make a commitment you need to stick to it, you go talk to your father". Another side note. W has made this statement before... How I so want to say "ya just like your mother made when we got married". But I don't... So I go into room to find out what is going on. Son does not want to play baseball this year. I told him if he really does not want to play he will have to tell the coach. Then W said and I will take the $100.00 reg we paid out of your bank account. He said that would be fine. (Like taking money he does not see in going to be a big thing to him). Anyway I told him he has to play today’s game and then can tell coach at next practice. Then I went out and continued working in yard. So now it's time for the game. The coach wants the players there 30 min before so they can warm up. W said she would meet us there. After we got there I got a little windy so I called home and told W if she comes she should bring a jacket. I then asked her to bring mine too. So the game is going and Wife shows up with my jacket. She watches 3 innings and then said she is going to go so she can have dinner ready for when we get home. Ok now are you ready for this........................................................................I JOKENLY SAID “before you go can you get me some nachos at the snack bar... and I kind of laughed.THEN SHE SAID....."Ya I can go get you some. Give me the money" OK this is a new one. First the snack bar was at the other field so it was not a short walk, Second WIFE NEVER GOES AND GETS ME THINGS I ASK FOR.... Ok I mean if she was getting something for herself ya she would pick up something for me but... a special trip just for me........ I really was not hungry but hey I gave her the money and said get something for you too... she brought back the nachos and a water for me and did not get anything for her. Then she left. Well that's about it for tonight. I am beat from working out in the yard. W is over her Mom's watching "roots" so I think I will go watch a little T.V myself. I am going to work in the morning to pick up some overtime pay.
Later Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know