Day has been up and down. H and I seemed to have gone dark without even trying. Texting only and the phone calls to the kids to tell them goodnight. I suppose there isn't much to say at this point. He is very polite and kind when we speak. I am the same.
Either way is hard, with him in the home or out, but I must say that him being out (while difficult) is the best path for me right now. I have had enough of 'in my face' stuff, that's for sure.
Went to the mall and out to dinner with the girls and a close friend of mine. She actually had an A years ago. She knows about H and I, but I haven't gotten to the A yet. We had a nice time. Thanks for asking miss saffie.