Because we have an extremely low mortgage which I can pay by myself but if I have to buy him out I will struggle. The house is now worth 10 times what we paid for it. I don't have that sort of money to give him or even to remortgage.
Is this likely to change? Or will you be in this sitch regardless of when you D?
Did you tell him this is why you want to wait? I may have missed that. I can see why he would be frustrated if he doesn't understand why you are waiting. My H willfully misunderstood, and assumed I was lying, so I understand also if that is the case.
Nicola
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