Thanks everyone for the support about the new job. I havent posted much lately because nothing is happening in my situation.... no word from H, sometimes I miss him, sometimes not at all. Sometimes I would like our marriage to reconcile, sometimes I'd rather meet someone new. But to be honest I'm really not thinking about it.
Good Essie! I'm glad to see that you are living your life!
((((ESSIE)))))
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF
WOW Essie! It sounds like you are doing fabulously well!
Originally Posted By: Essie
So apart from that I have been working - and loving the new responsibilities and how occupied work is keeping me. So many new challenges. I was never really focused on my career - but I'm seizing the opportunity now that its fallen in my lap.
I think this is brilliant! Like the best GAL. Hooray!
Originally Posted By: Essie
Sometimes I would like our marriage to reconcile, sometimes I'd rather meet someone new. But to be honest I'm really not thinking about it.
And I think this sounds like being detached. Fab fab fab!!
(((Essie))), and thankyou for the thoughtful posts on my thread- I will be coming to you (and T) for advice on NC when I come to experimenting with that!
L.xx
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
I'd give anything to make you better I'd give anything to point you to free I'd give anything to help you realise, that you're not helping yourself by hurting me
Hey Essie...I was thinking about that conversation you had with your H a little while back...where he said he missed you all (?) and wanted to stay in touch more...do you think he was extending an olive branch? You have done such a good job at GAling and appearing upbeat etc to him, do you think he could be under the impression that you have "moved on" ? Seeing as you are not in contact as such..do you think it would be worth you now returning his call, taking a risk? Maybe he tried to tentively reach out to you and suggest keeping in touch, but then, was looking for something from you?
Maybe not, but I wonder if you dont have much to lose at this point and would it be worth taking a little risk and initiating some contact yourself? Ask how he is doing, would he like to come over and sort out those photos he was asking about...? Especially as you say you've become ambivalent about reconciling?
Just wondering! 2x2 me if needs be!
Ali xx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
