She may have lost her feelings for you, or, more likely, buried them way down inside to the point where she cannot feel them or "access" them. That is so hard to experience from your/our side. I've been there, and still am to a degree.
Try working through some of Susan Anderson's books on abandonment. She outlines various stages of the shock and then recovery process, and she is very good at laying out how abandonment fears and the emotions we LBS feel manifest themselves in our lives, sometimes in ways we are not fully aware of. She also has some good exercises for dealing with recognizing and coping with the myriad of emotions we're feeling. It will be well worth your time to track her books down, or visit her site at abandonment.net.
