W2G let me give you an example of mixed signals I got yesterday. My H told me "we're done, I want a D, we're through" Again. So I took down the wedding photo. He saw it later and told me I was being ridiculous. I told him if you want a D then I don't want the photo here. He just gave me a strange look. Now, if H wants a D why the hell should it matter to him if i'm taking down a photo???
Just keep believing in your M and doing what works for you. Like they all said if he eventually comes back then great if not you'll be just fine.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
