WTG, Like Jen says...they are all reading from the same script.
They don't want to admit there's a chance and truth be told they'd rather we are thrown way off the other way to avoid false hopes. It also keeps them off the hook so they can truly do the soul searching they need to. Unfortunately he may not get to the actual soul searching part for quite some time yet. The question is...are you in this for the long haul? And the good news is, it doesn't really matter. Because that's how I find detaching is easier when you're in the mode of..."this may work out or it may not...either way I gotta take care of me". What we have to do is the same either way. And then if he does come around you'll know if it's what you want or not. From my point of view, I know I won't be ready to date for quite some time. So as long as I'm not dating...I'm still in effect just waiting to see what happens. I'm not waiting around. Just DB'ing for myself first and foremost. Of course...I have a strict no dating while breastfeeding rule, but I guess every sitch is different! LOL! I'm sorry your conversation went this way. If it helps...it's all part of the process. Bhopeful had a conversation with his WAW and a week later whe was moving back into the house. I doubt it will be that quick...but things change. At least your H has admitted he's in a haze! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
