H is having affair after all

[Holly06]

Eve,

I am so sorry for your hurt. It is the worst pain you will ever feel, but you are surviving it, and someday you will be ok.


It is a process.

But for now, I would like you to keep your options open while you have time to decide what YOU want.

Stop talking to H.

Do his answers really make you feel better?

See, right now, we all want you to FEEL better. More alive and less a victim.
It will come for you, like it has for all of us.


By keeping your options open, I mean I would like to see you do no more damamage to your R with your H.
Let him suffer from other directions, not yours.

He is suffering. He will suffer. He will hurt.
His hurt will take time though. We really don't care about him right now,
We all care about you.

So breathe, mourn, cry amd curl up in your bed. Take care of your children as best you can right now, they are your constant.
And they will need your strength too.

Keep coming here for support and venting.
Do not go to H.
Let him wonder about you, and if you are OK.

Hugs and a warm thought to you,
Holly