Faith is not a burden, it is very liberating and comforting.
I totally agree.
But you also have to put your faith into God and not your Spouse.
Allow God to lead your paths let Him be the center and focus of your life and leave your Spouse alone.
Love your Spouse from a distance.
There is nothing any of us can do to make this MLC go away or end quickly, and even when MLC is over, we still can't make them come back to the Marriage.
Getting ourselves emotionally and spiritually healthy will help us regardless of whether or not they come back again.
In order to get to the next phase, the piecing, you have to be able to handle the wreckage and the baggage they bring back home.
It can be harder then the actual MLC in some ways.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
