No, I have never been tempted to ask about a date in which he wants to come home. It has not tried my patience at all.

I am letting him set the pace.

I have to admit that so far, this has been very easy.

I think it has been easy because he is the one who has initiated the talking. Yes, there have been light moments, but also serious ones and like I said it has been very easy.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19