My wife threw me out of our house this week. I have been reading "The Divorce Remedy" for about a week now. She came to me about a week ago and said that she wasn't in love with me anymore. I thought we were happy. We have financial problems and she started a new job. I began suspecting an affair. There were marked changes in her behavior towards me. When I confronted her about it, she trew me out of the house but never denied the affair. I feel so alone right now. We have been married for seven years and we have had more of our share of ups and downs. I love my family but this is the second time she has put us through this. We try to make changes but do not stick to them. The last time this happened she called when she hit rock bottom. I went back almost imidiatley and for three years things seemed to be OK. Is this a midlife crisis? What do I do this time if she calls me back?