I cant tell if my H is just a WAS or if he is having a MLC. Or are those two connected somehow? My H is very young.. he is 26, will be 27. Realized that he only has 4 more years to become a firefighter. That is pretty much all he sees in his head. He is being very selfish. He said that he will not be happy until he is a firefighter. He also has said that he isnt going to care about anyone or anything until he is a firefighter. So does he care about the OW or is he just using her? Because he sure has detached from his 3S's, and if OW is more important then them, than to me that is just wrong!! But it was almost as if he woke up one day and was like "wow, I gotta get out of here. She is holding me back. I can't have a life if I stay here" and then literally RAN out the door. That is how quickly he walked away, he didnt walk at all, it was more of a sprint!!! When I read the sections in DR "surviving his midlife crisis" I thought to myself "oh my gosh!" because it pretty much sounded exactly like my H. I just pray that he "snaps" out of this sometime. If my H is having a MLC and has filed D papers, can this still turn around?
