After reading through quite a bit of this thread, I really believe that my H is going through an Identity Crisis (he's 28). The questions that he is constantly asking himself run through is mind morning, noon and night. "What is in store for my future? If I do this, then what will happen then... etc." He is majorly concerned w/ his lack of desire to have children and how that will affect the two of us. I've always wanted children, but I want him more. I feel like that we can't make major decisions like that when a person is in the thought process that he is currently in. But he wants to have the answer now, and if he doesn't then that means that we need to move on.

I've got to be patient and just let him be.


Laura