I have stopped OW talk and so has my H.

Wonderful! The less mention of her, the better!

If someone were to say to you, "Whatever you do, don't think of a pink elephant!", what's the first vision that pops into your head?! A pink elephant, right?!

So goes it with ow's and om's. The more that you remind your partner of them, the more likely they are to think about them.

JJ

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