Maybe I should start "acting as if" he is in my future! Did I hit on something here!?

Maybe! It's hard telling just what will work until you try it! See what kind of response you get, even if it isn't an immediate one.

At the very least, you can try backing off of the thoughts of his future being with the ow, and see what happens?

JJ

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