JJ,
I'm having a problem with my MLC H:
I need advice. Everything was going very well with H. Now I feel like the walls are tumbling down! Last night I received a call from a utility company (electric) , they said if $271 isn't paid by Monday they will shut off electricity! H is under court order to pay this bill. And I've been finding out he has not paid phone bill or medical bills, all these are court ordered to be paid by him. I called him last night and told him that I had received a call from the company and what they said. I asked him if he was going to be paying the bill by monday, he said he sent them part of the money, I said I think they want all of it. I asked him to call the company and talk to them about it, I asked if he needed the phone #, he said he had the papers so he would call. What should I do? I feel like I'm backed against a wall here! I don't want to have to call my L and tell him thatH is not paying these bills, it will only make everything worse between us, but I feel like I will have no choice if H doesn't take care of this problem. H is not be responsible and I know he has bought animals and has a big feed bill, but that is not my fault. I'm afraid that I'm going to have to file for a legal separation. If I have to do that it will only put me back at square one with our R. I'm so sad and unhappy, we were getting along so well and I had been seeing alot of baby steps... Please give ne your input on this so I can make a decision. Should I have a talk with H... Should I just wait and see if company shuts us off? Help! Deb

bom:01/2003
D: 03/14/2006