Well, I guess showing SOME form of responsibility for the kids would be the most important for me. My H says "call me if you need anything". I tell him "D needs a ride sometimes" & he just give me the deer in the headlights stare. He has now stopped paying support (or reduced it to next to nothing). What makes them think that all responsibility goes out the window when THEY start acting like teenagers??? I want to know???

Barb